Asked by ale_fia on
DOES HE STILL LIKE HER EVEN THOUGH HE IS WITH ME??
i have been dating a guy and i love him alotttt and i know he does too.. before he got me, he was hitting on another girl.. but she was younger to him and said that she wasnt ready for it.. but then he fell in love with me and its been 5 months today.. some things bug me alot about him.. him and her used to peek at eachoda before he was dating me.. he has talked to her when i was dating him without taking into concern how i felt about it.. in these 5 months he has still been peeking at her and he has also accpeted it himself.. the days he used to talk to her, he wanted to match clothes with her (like red and red) and she did wear red.. i have always wanted that.. he has neverrr been in a serious relation and im tired of explaining him how a girl should be treated... since he told her to wear red (which happend like a month ago), and he still peeks at her, im scared he will slose feelings for me.. what if he starts feeling for her again? what if he already does? i keep comparing myself to her and i always find her better.. i have tried talkin to him about it but he says he loves me and doesnt like her but rather just likes the way da girl looks at him.. it hurts me like hell.. and i have no idea what to do and how to talk him over with it.. :"(
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Good thing you haven't married him or had a child with him. It's only been five months and he's not satisfied with only you and still has to challenge himself with the flirting with someone he may or may not get. It's not that she's better, it's that he's insensitive and kind of clued out. Telling him how to treat a woman isn't going to teach him. Showing him will. Make it known that you can be fine without him because you don't need to waste your time with someone who doesn't even regard you in the same esteem that you hold for yourself.
I have five words for you.. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS (now let it sink in with this situation, just forget the words and do the math). I would leave if I were you. He should only have his attention on you at all times not planning out what he wants to wear with another girl. Are they doing a dance performance or something? No? Then see ya! Good luck :)