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How to stay chaste

How does one stay committed to their vow of chastity in this day and age when we are BOMBARDED with sex?

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Pivyque
PivyqueMarried
Posted February 14, 2012

Well, I can understand this. I was celibate (before getting married) for years. It is NOT that hard when you focus on the enrichment that is happening. :-) Sex is everywhere! You don't HAVE to give in to it. Focus on your future and remember that sex will always be available. Don't rush into it. Try reading, working out, playing sports, going to different places and meeting new people. I know things were cheaper back when I was dating lol But there are different things to do that do not cost a lot of money. Just a tip: Do not live with your partner or have sleepovers with them. It helps reduce the temptation. Another thing that helped me was taking care of myself before heading out of the house for the day if I needed to. Good Luck!

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MsTaken
Posted February 13, 2012

By getting the fulfillment we need from our partners no matter what it is as long other person willing.

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