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what do I do?

Ok I just need some advice. My girlfriend and I have been together for a little more than 7 months. She is my dream girl I love her and her children with all of myself. She says she loves me and my daughter the same. She took a job that is 2 hours away and will moving there in the next few days. I want to go with her but she wants me to take my time. We have gone from texting each other all day everyday to I'm lucky to get a text from her a day. I love her and want to be with her. I just don't know what I'm supposed to do because I'm so afraid that she will just end it by saying she just doesn't have time for me. What do I do?

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Posted February 11, 2012

If you are inspired by this girl then you will stay steady in the practice of demonstrating your love. Relationships involve authentic communication whereby you both work by mutual vision, growth and inspiration with each other. Keep sharing how you feel with her. It is important to be honest and ask her to do the same.

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Posted February 6, 2012

If someone loves you and wants to be with you they MAKE the time. It really is that simple. Dont waste too much time wondering and being stuck in limbo, have a heart to heart and if there is ANY hesitation on her end then I think you have your answer.

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Posted February 6, 2012

Make a commitment. Ask her to marry you.

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