Asked by Faizah on
infidelity
We have been married for almost 35 years and the eldest is 34 yrs old. Now we are both 60's and I came to know that my husband having an affair with his student who is only 27. Now he is married to her. What do I do?
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He doesn't deserve to have you at all. Go stand on a balcony look around at the world that awaits you and yell at the top of your voice, "NEXT!"
Your relationship has changed. He will always be the father of your children but you now have the freedom to have the life you want. Design it and live it. Congratulations on your new freedom.
Alright, if he's married to her, than you both are divorced, correct? If that is the case, then the only thing that you can do is MOVE ON. He may have left you for someone far younger, but if you choose to really look at it, he did you a favor. His actions prove he wasn't commited like you were, and you deserve someone who IS invested in their marriage to you. If necessary, seek counseling to work out your feelings and frustrations with what has preceeded in your love life. It will take some time, but you will get through the hurt and find happiness again. Good luck!
Dear Faizah, it's best to take care of yourself. There is nothing you can do about his marriage to his student. You can only move forward and create the life you want by focusing on you. This could be a time of discovery, renewal and growth for you. Think about what you're passionate about, what you've always wanted to do and learn, and start doing these things. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people. The most difficult life lessons do lead to something better, even in this situation. Take care.
That is the nastiest thing i have ever heard in my life. If he needs someone 27 then he obviosly doesnt love you, DIVORCE
He's married to her? If that is the case, move on. I don't understand how he is married to her if you two aren't divorced...