Asked by Paula Andrade on
Can a man fall in love and wants to marry me with only 1 month of relationship?
I met a guy from Germany last month and he´s getting divorced this month (after the 1 year process in Germany) We´re together for a few days, then I have to travel and he needed to go back to Germany aslo to close the divorce issue, now he says that he´s in love with me, wants to marry and have a child also move to Brazil. Well, I dont know what to think about his behavior, I like him....but this sounds crazy, to decide to have a new family in another country with someone you dont even know her parents....I´m bit afraid. Is that normal that a guy would do something like that for real? He´s 50 and I´m 25.
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Andrade, Are you crazy honey? What are you thinking? Seriously? Go find a cute man that is local and your age! Do you realize this guy is at the age where he may not be able to perform when you want and need him to perform? Why would you even consider this? Run girlfriend, run as fast as you can! He can't possibly love you, HE DOESN'T KNOW YOU!!!! I'm sure he is in LUST! What 50 year old wouldn't be in lust with a 25 year old that is giving him the time of day. Go on down the road Andrade!
Honey,listen to me you need to get out of this now! Don't be in such a rush to be with somebody that you end up doing something that ruin your life! This guy is married,plus he's half your age,plus you've only known him a month! You don't know anything about him or his family and you're talking about a life-time commitment?! This makes absolutely no sense. Be patient and wait for the RIGHT man to come along,because I PROMISE you God DOES have better in mind for you. God Bless and you're in my prayers.
hey come on why the hell do you want to marry a 50 year old guy, have you gone mad. there are sooo many guys who are just in their 30s and wants to have a serious relation ship. why dont you find someone like that.
No, that is not normal. Trust your instincts, this guy is crazy. Think about how all this sounds. You only met him a month ago and have only actually spent a few days together and he just got divorced but he wants marriage and kids from you and he wants to move to another country. I would definitely be afraid of this guy, he sounds really unstable and shady.