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is he still interested in me?

okay well i have been engaged to my fiance for almost two years and we had a beautiful daughter on 11 9 09. he swears up and down he loves me but for some reason he watches videos of other girls like dancing and doing all kinds of other thing and he knows this really tares my heart open and when i find out he was doing it he lies and say he didn't the argument goes on and on until i either tell him to get out or i say me and my daughter are leaving i honestly don't want that at all i just want him to respect me and love me like he should and stop telling lies and doing what he is doing

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Lyz Lenz
Lyz LenzMarriedCommunity Manager
Posted March 22, 2010

Well first you need to stop threatening to do something you aren't going to do. And second you need to decide how long you can handle this behavior. What if he never changes? Could you live with it forever?

Third, I think you need to involve a third party. These issues are never just what they seem on the surface and I think you and your fiancee need to seek out some counseling, specifically about this issue.

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