Asked by Lyntom25 on
why did he kiss me?
We were both interested in eachother but it didnt work out so we became friends. One night we hung out and he talked about how he liked being my friend and wouldnt hang out with me so often if he didnt. Before he left he gave me a tight hug and started to kiss me. Right before that i told him we were just friends. Basically he text me after and told me that he hope that didnt make things awkward between us and that he likes being my friend more and more but he likes kissing me too. He told me he kissed me to release the tensions between us and he told my friend he kissed me out of frustration but who knows. But when i asked if it meant anything and he responded that he would have meant something if it happened a month ago. Does this guy still have interest or what? Thanks in advance.
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Why didn't things work out initially? Is it something that can't be worked out at all? I am wondering if it is possible that he regrets the break up. Or it could just be a FWB thing, it's hard to say.
But if you both agree to the boundaries of being friends then stick to them. And if you guys can't then consider desolving the friendship, because if both sides can't agree to the boundaries there is bound to be a lot of heartache for someone down the road.
It's kind of odd. It sounds like he either was interested but then claimed he wasn't because he thought that you didn't reciprocate the feelings or he's trying to work out a FWB situation. I think you need to have a talk with him to set up some clear boundaries about your friendship. If you don't want to fall into a FWB situation where he uses you for sex, let him know that you are friends and that's it. He crosses the line by kissing you or pushing physical relations on you. If you are interested in dating him let him know that he's giving you mixed messages. That you are interested in being more than friends but if he isn't he needs to stop the physical contact completely. Don't let things sit uncomfortably and don't let your friendship boundaries become a skewed blurry in-between type of relationship.