Asked by toppie on
What do i do with this guy?
Ok like most people,
I use facebook
I met this guy on facebook and accepted it since in other games I had no problem accepting friend requests
he asked for my ym 1 day and i gave it to him cause i thought it would be harmless.
but as time passed by like...3 months or so
he started calling me pet names, telling me he really likes me, keeps acting "cute" which he is not in my standards.
he is 25! he's too old for me and i havent even met him! plus i told him i like someone else.
he tells me we're friends but he keeps acting like we r close..its getting annoying and its getting really scary for me because no matter how mean I am to him he wont leave me alone
I dont know what to do act nice or mean because i cant ignore, i was raised to talk no matter what, so its hard for me.
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I remember when I naively gave out my Instant Messenger name to a creepy stalker. It happens. Be very clear and tell him to stop (you don't have to be nice). If he doesn't, you have to cut him off by de-friending him on facebook and changing your YM. Then just use more caution next time and don't give out your info to people you don't know. And trust me, he knows what he's doing. There's no misunderstanding, he's a creepy internet stalker.
I suggest acting according strongly to what you feel and since you mentioned you were raised to speak up. Let him know what you're feeling. If you don't speak up, he may take that silence as approval. Let him know in a firm but, diplomatic manner.