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how can you tell if a guy really likes you if he's trying his best to hide it.

im 26 and he's 21. we only known each other for 6months started out as trying to get to know each other as friends, hookin up one day a week now its several days a week. he asked most of the time to chill with me. i always initiate the sex thing so i dont think thats it.

i was thinking of pulling back for a while. pretending not to be interested to see what happens any suggestions??? please

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adrian
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Posted March 22, 2010

Don't play games. What is your ultimate goal here? Why do you want to know if he likes you as more than a hook up? Do you like him and want to have an actual relationship? If so, just be honest. Tell him how you feel. Playing games and pretending not to be interested when you actually are is only going to cause confusion and unnecessary drama. And if you aren't actually interested in dating him, why do you care whether or not if he's interested in you?

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