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Does he want a relationship?

Im 19 and Im dating a 23 year old guy. We have been on a couple dates and I feel like I really like him. He seems interested in me but not as much as other guys have been. I am a virgin and I want my first time to be special. This means I want to wait to get to know him well enough before I sleep with him. How do I know if he will wait or if he just wants the sex?

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Posted October 6, 2010

A man shows you who he is and who he is not by what he will or will not do for you.
If he's not acting to interested in you as a whole i wouldn't tell you to waste your time with him. If he's not acting to interested in sex then he could just be trying to respect your wishing and keep his composer around you. I knew a guy who would barely touch me because he didn't want to scare me away because he knew I was a virgin. He will wait if he truly wants to be with you. If he acts distant and stops trying then good you dodged a big heartbreak bullet.

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