Asked by loveisjoy on
If I feel like I am connecting with someone and I don't know them yet what do I do?
I have been aware of myself for a long time. I started meditating at age 22 years and go inside for my answers. Now that I am looking to be with a soulmate as I am not interested in dating anyone but the person I would hopefully be meant to be with. What if I felt like I already knew this person, had met them 4 times but still felt like I didn't know them well enough to have a friendship with them yet. I have tried to find this person on okcupid and other dating sites and have been relatively fruitful in figuring myself out but still not meeting the person. Am I connecting with someone or is this just false hope?
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I sounds like you need to bring your head out of the clouds and think about the reality of the situation. I don't care how spiritual you think you are, you aren't going to know a person unless you spend time with them and date them. How exactly do you think you're going to find this mystical soulmate if you aren't interested in dating anyone except them? Honestly it sounds like you are setting yourself up with an impossible expectation of what a relationship is. Regardless of how you feel there will be guys that you'll date that won't be right for you and it'll probably take some time to find your soulmate. I think you will eventually find them, but you have to keep an open mind and an open heart when it comes to dating in order to do that.