Asked by joshua1985 on
how to get back to life ?
everything start 3 years ago.i live in dubai and i work there as a dentist i met a girl and i fell in love with her and had an amazing time untile i got a call home from my friend that my mom is so sick so i wnt back home and then well my mom died and i lose the connect btw myself and that girl it was a shock for me my mom was all i got to keep things short when i get back to dubai i found that she moved on with her life and start seeing another guy and scince then my life was a mess and im still single and i seems that i cant date again what to do,help. thanks in advance.
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To get back to life you have to make life happen. You said you "can't seem to date" what does that mean? Does it mean you are not asking any woman out or you are asking women out but they are turning you down? If it's the first one, ask ladies out! If its the second one, maybe you are approaching them wrong. Take a breather and get your confidence back. Hang out with your friends and forget dating for a while, or if you can afford it take a vacation.
Also, be careful that you are not comparing all the women you meet to your ex girlfriend. What she did was cold. But she obviously wasn't the love of your life if that is how she is treating you. Don't compare. Take each woman as they come.
Start a new hobby (do you surf? or ski?) and start regaining your joy. Then, as you meet people, ask them out. Don't mope around waiting for the next perfect girl. If she is perfect, she's not moping around. She's out having a good time.