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What does my online guy friend really want?

I am a happily married woman who chatted online with a man from overseas. He wants me to find a woman for him to marry. I told him that I don't know many single women and that he could try an online dating service, but he seems to think I should be his match maker.

What do you think? Do you think he really has the hots for me?

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adrian
adrianPatient, Supportive, Passionate, Special
Posted March 17, 2010

Totally agree with Lyz, it's a scam. And why do you care if he has the hots for you, you are married so what difference does it make? It sounds like chatting online with single guys and checking to see if they're interested is a sign that your thinking of straying from your marriage vows. Just saying that's the appearance it gives off.

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Lyz Lenz
Lyz LenzMarriedCommunity Manager
Posted March 17, 2010

Why are you chatting with this guy from overseas? Did you ever consider that he might be working on a scam? If he really wanted a bride he'd find better ways and if he really wanted to hit on you, he'd be using a different line. This all sounds like a scam. I'd get out.

Also, why are you chatting with single guys online? I don't mean that as judgment, but as a legitimate question.

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