Asked by starchaser85 on
Is he Jelous??
So i recently started hanging out with this guy.. and we are not dating or exclusive or anything like that. Just hangout and hookup what not .. were both cool with it and stuff .. and on the same page with things ... Last weekend though i went out to the bar with a few girlfriends of mine and i got pretty drunk and must have text-ed him that this really cute boy bought me a drink and i may go home with him... (which never did happen anyway) He never said anything about it until two days later ... I just talked to him on the phone and he brought it up. so naturally told him i was really drunk and nothing happened. But why is he now just asking me about it?? Has it been bugging him possibly and he didn't know how to approach it to me??
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It seems like you want him to be jealous because you want him to like you more than an FWB. But honestly, very rarely do guys get into FWB situations because they hope it will lead to something more. He is probably fine with seeing you flirt with other guys and hopes that when he flirts with other girls you are fin too. I wouldn't mention it to him, nor would I go out of your way to try and make him jealous. That's just passive aggressive behavior. If you are unhappy in your FWB and want it to become something more then you need to talk with him about it and not play games.
I find it odd that you care so much. Do you want him to be jealous? You've established that you are fine with having a FWB no strings attached kind of relationship. If that were really true it wouldn't matter. Obviously you are trying to get a reaction out of him and you want him to get jealous. If you want your relationship with him to move past the stage it's currently at, the best way to do that is to be honest and open about it. Not to resort to games to try and strike a nerve with him. If you want to end up in a more serious relationship with him, you're sending the wrong message by texting him about other guys you want to hook up with. Guys don't want to hear about that kind of stuff, FWB or not. In reality it's probably going to lessen his opinion of you as someone who would actually want a committed to a relationship. If he mentioned it to you, he was obviously thinking about it but that doesn't necessarily mean he was jealous.