Asked by donnmalona on
how do I please myself
I am 38 and have been with someone for 11 years he left me telling me I need to figure out by body and what make me tik. Because he has left over sex. I have never had a orgasam with anyone. And I need help to figure out my body first. And not be shy about that or having sex

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Reach your hand down there and start finding out what feels good. Find your clitoris and your g-spot (there are books that give you maps) and start experimenting. Also, I'd find some toys and start using those. Have fun!