Asked by mattm2386 on
What is wrong with me?
I recently got in a relationship about 2 months ago. This guy is sweet, adorable, fun and great in bed. For some reason this isn't enough for me. I still want to be with other guys. I just don't know what to do. I feel like we have moved to fast in such a short time. Already saying " I Love You". Which is an uncomfortable word for me. I have talked to him about this but I feel like I cant communicate my feelings clear enough and im not getting a clear response back. He loves me and cares for me. Thats what I get. I Like strange sex and I cant seem to get over it. Seems like every relationship i get into I go through this over and over again. How do I overcome this problem? Or is it that I haven't found the one yet?
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Essentially, if you are always looking for a way out of every relationship you are in you are having commitment issues. maybe you don't want to settle down, ever and that is okay, but if you are waiting for some mythical guy to make you feel like you don't want to date anyone else, you are waiting in vain. You need to learn how to be happy where you are and with the person you are with and that requires some introspection, you probably won't get on a Q/A. Can you talk to someone?
I understand what you mean. What I'm going to say might not be something you like, but I think you need to hear. This feeling of being unfulfilled no matter what happens when you are still incapable of fulfilling yourself. You need to be less dependent on your relationship for satisfaction and more on yourself. When you get there then you'll find you are no longer letting these seemingly amazing guys pass you by. Don't get me wrong he might not just be the one, but if its a pattern for you then you are getting in these relationships for the wrong reasons, and you need to take a step back and question why you have this strange void. Strange sex is really not a big deal and if its just about being kinky in bed then that is something you can talk to him about and see if it works out.
What happens with this guy is up to you, but if you do leave him you need to realize that you need to satisfy yourself before expecting someone else to fill that for you.