How do I begin to get over the betrayal of two people I gave my loved to? My Husband and Best Friend began a texting affair and then 6 mos later they decided to make it physical...They wouldn't kiss on the month or go all the way, but giving oral sex was O.K...The fact is my husband was wanting to go further, but they got caught before that could happen. the last three weeks he has own up to everything and we have had great communication on why this has happen. There are some days that I feel so close to him, and the on others the anger over how disrespectful they were to me drives me crazy. I keep reading that if the cheater owns up to his mistake and is willing to do what ever it takes to make it work we might have a chance...I hope he can handle this roller coaster ride...Tks