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i m engaged but my fiance want to break relationship

we r in love since 10 years but v r legally engaged since 3 years.....i love him alottt n he aldo do.....but the thng is dat he is saying dat i dnt trust him....so nw its tym to break relation......the actual thing by myside is dat whnever i fel insecure abt him i use to ask a questions to him n making him irritated.....but i agree on my dat mistak.....i said hm dat i wil get myslf change..but he dnt believe me....wht should i do to get hm back...i hav apologise hm alot...i make swears dat i wil get change.i aproach him by different ways but he is not recievin my calls nor he is replyn my sms....wht should i do

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Posted March 16, 2010

yeah 1nce in our relation he talked to some other grl...but he apologe me thn i accept him...but i disnt hav n.e doubt on him ryt nw.i only use to ask him smthng if i hv n.e insecurity......but i m nt 100%sure abt dat he hav n.e othr gf beside me but i m 110% sure dat he do lve me....bec he is very nyc 2 me n my family n alll...but nw wht shd i do to restore my relation wid him...i cant understand whn i ask him abt my insecurity evn aftr dat he was alryt wid me...bt on another thng v hd fight n he said nw i dnt wana n.e relation wid u...plz let me know i want him bak i jst cant live widout him

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adrian
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Posted March 15, 2010

So, he says that you don't trust him? Is there truth to that? Do you have insecurities that make you constantly question him or has he actually done something in the past to warrant that? You've made attempts to let him know that you're willing to change but it's up to him to believe that or not. If he won't believe you then there's nothing you can do to change his mind. But you can work on yourself and figure out what caused the insecurities and overcome it so it won't be a problem in your next relationship.

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