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(gay) wants his boyfriend back after a nasty break up
Well my boyfriend and I were together for almost a year until he wanted to date my friend who is a girl (cause his dad asked him when is he gonna bring a gf around) oh yeah and no one really knew except for our close friends so he would he sex with me still for the first two weeks of his so could relationship and I told him that I felt as if I was being used and he needed to be honest with her so he told her bout me and his his past bf's and she got upset and then she still wanted to be with him but she held some anger towards me and so I told her bout everything while all this was playing therw he wanted to be my friend and act like nothinh ever happened so i would get so pissed and upset I would tell him off and he would cry so the fight got bigger and I tried to make a fake facebook to break them up but it didn't work and also tried so many things he is mean to her he picks on her all the time calls her fat ass and she is a big girl that prove he doesn't like her and he tell everyone he hates me and can't stand me but he is always paying so much attention to me and is always listening to what I have to say he took all my friends turn them against me and everyone thinks I am pshyco and so I left it alone but then one day he started to run his mouth and was dogging me so I told everyone thing that was their it made me feel so much better so I walked away and he still talks mess after a month of this and I haven't said anything to him or really about him its been six months since he and that girl have been dating I just wonder why if he hates me so much then why does he care so much to pay attention and talk so much about me after he has done some horrible things to me I still love him but I want to know if maybe theirs away to work all this out after they break up cause maybe he still cares????? :( _ hopefull

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I really don't think you can work this out. I don't know if he's confused about his sexuality or just in denial (probably the latter) but he's taking out his anger and frustrations about it on you. It sounds like his home environment isn't accepting of the fact that he's gay so he has to live a lie or face being shunned and outcast. It's a tough situation to deal with but he has to figure it out on his own. You can't really help him and it's not a good idea for you to try and be involved in his life until he does figure it out. The best thing you can do for yourself is to leave him alone and move on with your own life. Don't play childish petty mind games by talking crap about him to his friends and trying to break him up or spread rumors over facebook. He's not the one for you. Learn from this experience and move on to a better relationship.