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She just won't commit, but wants to see me

Dating a stubborn woman who does not want to date seriously but still wants to see me, wants to have sex, and says she misses me. But if I try to bring up anything about this issue I get the "I'm being pushy" comment. I've started to be less complimntry, give her more space, and ingeneral try not to make myself so available. Example, spent the night at her place last night, I was invited, but then asked her out for St. Patrick's day, which is 5 days away, and was told she doesnt know because firends from work might be planing a pub crawl, which I think she would want me to go on. I''m not the alpha in this relationship and its driving me crazy, like her sexy voice, eyes, and personality. $64,000 question, do I stick it out?

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adrian
adrianPatient, Supportive, Passionate, Special
Posted March 12, 2010

Often times men are the ones that use women for sex without any interest in a relationship but women actually do this too. And that's the situation that you're in. You are a FWB to her. She's only interested in sex with you. If you want a committed relationship you aren't going to get it from her. You should move on and find someone who shares the same values as you and wants to commit to you.

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