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Why mostly men hate virgins

One of my friend got hoked up with guy,whom they dated for a month,later brake up becose the guy found out she was a virgine.

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CrazyFly
CrazyFlyCrazy Sexual Rebel Happy
Posted March 13, 2010

Depends on the guy. If he is in the relationship for sex (read, porn-star sex) then of course a virgin won't be able to give him what he is looking for so the guy would leave.

On the other hand if a guy really loves the girl, he would take this virginity as a very positive thing, that this girl has that much more self-respect and is really wanting to connect emotionally in a a relationship and not just sexually.

Like said before, all depends on the guy. But one thing for sure, if a guy leaves after finding out the girl was virgin, this means he was after sex only.. so in a way its good that he left..

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Lyz Lenz
Lyz LenzMarriedCommunity Manager
Posted March 12, 2010

I don't think that is all men. That is just one instance and honestly, it sounds like an excuse. If everything else were going 100% well, I don't think many guys would break off a great relationship because she was a virgin. There have to be other reasons.

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