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how to ask someone out when we are more then freinds.

me and this beautiful woman have been talking for six maybe 7 months , we just about do everything with each other , allways doing things together helping each other out when the other person needs help, , just recently she has showing interest in maybe more then just close freinds, just her littel hints she throws my way. how do i ask her out when im affraid that if I do it might just ruin our freindship we have? im strting to fall for her and I thing she is falling for me we are both afrraid i think to go to the next step. what can I say to her ?

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Lyz Lenz
Lyz LenzMarriedCommunity Manager
Posted March 12, 2010

If she is giving you hints to take it to the next step AND you want to take it to the next step, ask her out. And honestly, your friendship sounds like its based on a mutual attraction, so how can you lose that by asking her out? Also, if she is giving you hints you risk more by NOT asking her out.

Ask her out on a date, tell her you are interested in pursuing something beyond friendship. You know what to do and what to say, you just have to actually DO it.

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