Asked by kellynunn2008 on
after six years she told me she slept with 30 to 50 guys
My wife and I been together for six years, she told me at the begining she selpt with 9 guys after six years she tells me she selpt with 30 to 50 guys even black guys. Please tell me what I should do? Lost in Arizona.
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I don't think that this information affects you at all. You've been happily married to this woman for 6 years and it hasn't been an issue. Why is it an issue now.
I understand being frustrated that she lied to you at first, but in the end, your wife is still the same person you married 6 years ago. Knowing this doesn't change anything.
My question for you is why is it a problem if she slept with black guys?
Her past is her past. She probably shouldn't have shared that much info with you, but what's done is done. If not knowing hasn't affected your marriage in the past 6 years, knowing now shouldn't either. She probably went through a rough/confused patch in her life back then. But she's clearly over it now if she's married and committed to you. We've all made mistakes in our past and done things that we're not exactly proud of but learning from those mistakes are what makes us better people. It's not really fair for you to be upset with her over something she did before she knew you. If you love her for who she is now, that's all that should matter.