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does he love me?

hey i meet a guy 6 months back who said he loved me. we had sex after one month and i must say all was good. he had a girl friend but kept assuring me they werent meant to be and that he was sorting out issues early this year.
this guy talked about me in February with some people that i was too tiny for him and that he he loved me but wasnt in love with me. i contained it til recently, i told him i knew wat he had talked about me. he gotten angry and he said" anyway am sorry" the following day (Women's day) i sent him a message that i was going to see my step mom and he replied after 2 hours, when i gotten home and called him he was so mad and rude and that he wanted to spend the day with me but i wasnt there and that he didnt care whether i had gone visting my step mom or who. i asked him wat he wanted to have for breakfast and he said i shouldnt bother, but i insisted and he said i get him anything and if he wont like it, he will give it to his workmates and i exactly did that in the morning. now he wont talk to me because he is too proud and i have decided to be proud too. can i break the silence or move on with my life?

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Lyz Lenz
Lyz LenzMarriedCommunity Manager
Posted March 11, 2010

No. He doesn't love you. He is just saying what needs to be said to string you along. Look, no guy, if he really loves you, will make you be the "other woman" and that is what you are as long as he is dating his GF. You can imagine he uses the same "lovey" language with her.

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