Asked by vsquared on
Can't climax because he's too into me?
I've been dating a guy for about 3 months and we just started having sex on a regular basis. Though I am satisfied, he has had trouble cuming. He says it's because he's so into me and likes me so much that when he's about to he stops himself. He says he wants to make sure I'm enjoying it and last as long as possible but he gets to a point where he just can't come to again. He says he's absolutely enjoying himself and it has nothing to do with me.
I later gave him a great orgasm but I'm wondering, is he really stopping himself from cuming because of how he feels for me? Is that even possible? Does that happen to guys when they really like a girl? I'm flattered but I want him to finish too.
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If he's consciously stopping himself and waiting for you to finish him off a different way, then that's what he likes! But at some point he should relax about trying to please you by holding back during intercourse. If he refuses to let go during intercourse over the long term, then that's an issue. He shouldn't be overly concerned about performing for you all the time.
There is no reason to think he is lying and in my experience, guys do do that. So, if he says he's happy don't worry to much about it.
Actually, I think this is true. Guys try to hold out for as long as possible to try and get their girls to climax. This shows that he really cares about you and wants you to have a great experience with him. If he says he's enjoying himself, you shouldn't worry about whether he finishes or not every single time. It should be more about the journey and the experience of getting there, not just the end game.