Asked by BlckSam on
Does he have feelings for me?
There's a boy i hang round with at college , were really good friends and we practically do everything together but everyone around me keeps saying to us that were a cute couple and we should go out
i wouldn't mind going out with him but if our relationship goes wrong then so does our friendship plus i don't know if he feels the same way about me
what should i do and i say to him?
Btw im really shy so i dont really talk to boys which doesnt help
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No one looks like a fool if they ask someone out and get rejected. It happens all the time and it has happened to everyone. Oh my word, has it happened to everyone. If you are more concerned about looking like "a fool" than giving it a shot, you are missing out big time.
What's more important here?
i do want to go out with him but i dont wanna make myself look like a fool if he doesnt like me back
It's up to you if you want to risk the friendship. Forget about what everyone else says, how do you feel about him? You say you "don't mind" the idea of going out with him but is that only because of what other people have said and you wouldn't have considered it if no one else ever mentioned it? Or is it something you actually want? It's up to you if you want to risk the friendship you have now but ask yourself, would it bother you if he started dating someone else.