I met an amazing guy last summer. We really seemed to hit it off and dated for about 4 months. He started getting distant and when i confronted him about it he said things were going too fast. He was working too much and needed time to work on him. I told him to go see other people and figure it out. a couple months later he gets hurt on the job and starts texting me again. I go to check on him and we start talking. I told him that i would rather have him just as a friend than not have him at all. He started hanging out again taking our kids places together (he has 1 and I have 2). Then right before christmas he starts seeing someone (didn't tell me) and disapears again. No texts no calls nothing. I would have been ok with that since I had been talking to someone and he knew that. Towards the end of Jan he gets hurt again at work. He texts me and asks for help. I did not respond for a few days. I had told him before if he ever needed anything I would be there so I relented and called. It took a couple of weeks to nurse him back to work and now he is texting everyday. Valentines weekend we slept together and have a couple times since. Now i am even more confused than ever. He is the kind of person that makes me want to be a better person. He had said before that we 'just clicked'. I don't want to push him but i want to know where we are. Is it just friends with benefits or what? I will intentionally go all day and night without calling or texting him and he will call me first thing the next morning to see how I am. Can someone please give me some advice on this.