Asked by johnkuhn on
how do I know if a lady finds me attractive
I was with my last wife 18 years , untill i found she had been cheating on me with one of her co workers, I divorced her. this was folowing a car wreck that had left me partially paralized, my life was destroyed and seemed hopeless.
I went throught physical therapt to learn to walk again but can never return to work.I lost everything to pay hospital bills that went over the one million lifetime cap set by bluecross.
everything I knew about dating has changed an I am having a real problem finding someone that isent a drug addict of a complete drunk, where could I look to find a normal person, I was able to salvage enought to buy a nice home an new car an truck an dont want to loose that bey dating a gold digger. i have dated s few younger ladys but the ones my age seem so lost , do you have any advice , I dont want to spend the rest of my life by myself
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You seem a little lost yourself. This question doesn't seem to be about whether a woman finds you attractive but how to avoid any future pain caused by a woman. And I guess, I am not sure what to tell you. Don't believe words, believe actions. If she says she likes you but doesn't return your calls, then she doesn't determine the quality of a person based on how they act, how they treat you and other people.
As far as not getting burned again? Well, I am not sure. You can't protect yourself from life or from the crappy things that happen in life.
Try getting involved in a hobby, something that will let you meet people who share similar interests. Ask friends to set you up. And keep it up.