Asked by viela22 on
Should I go back with my long distance boyfriend of 2 years whom I still love?
Although long distance, our relationship was good. We talked every single day, sometimes 2 or 3 times a day on the fone. But out of insecurity and confussion (according to him) he recently tried to hook up with a girl over facebook (lame, I know!) but never really saw her or contacted her again. Still I felt betrayed and broke up with him. He says he loves me, and won't stop untill he gets me back, and still calls and texts non stop. I love him, but I'm not sure if it's going to work.
Should I continue with the relationship knowing that it could possibly happen again, and this time for real?
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I actually think adrian said everything I wanted to say and more. But just to reiterate. Go ahead and give it a shot if there is an "end date" up ahead. But if you two are thinking about an LDR without any sign of an end, then you will probably fall into the same cycle again.
I think that how long you will be apart should factor into your decision. Is he away for school or something where there's a timeframe that he'll end up moving back? Or is the move permanent? An LDR can work out, but there has to be a point where the distance will end. If you have an end date it will be easier to make it to that point. If however, there's no real prospects of you living near each other in the future, it might be best to try and move on now because eventually I think one of you will end up seeing someone else.