Asked by torob_version2 on
i want to see my girlfriend f**k another guy.. is it okay?
when we are making love, some times i ask her really to sex with another guy in front of me one time , and she accepts, but after the sex when i ask her, she definitely refuses it . i myself , am not so sure about it, but i think it would be great fantasy. and sometimes i think it's a great exam to test my girlfriend. anyway i want to do it, and i want to content my girlfriend to do it.
what should i really do?
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Personally I think that is sick,twisted and perverted and I will be praying that you put these thoughts out of your mind ASAP!
I'm not sure what you mean by "a great exam to test my girlfriend." What would you be testing -- to see if she's as kinky as you? To see if she only sexually wants you?
I understand fantasy, but this is one that would have to be mutual to work for anyone. It sounds like it isn't. That doesn't mean your girlfriend has failed a test. She's just not into it.
People often think something sounds good when they are excited that they wouldn't really want to do. Your girlfriend is probably just getting carried away when you're together.
If your girlfriend says she doesn't want to do it, drop it. Love is about wanting her to be happy, too. Stop testing people and start trying to grow up yourself.
What you should really do is get your mind right. First of all, and I say this respectfully, you're not "making love" to your girlfriend if you want he to "f*ck" another guy. You're the one "f*cking" her.
This girl is likely bowing to the intimacy and passion of the moment when she says that she would sleep with another man, because she believes that agreeing to this in the moment will heighten your pleasure. But when she says no after the fact, it is because she is rational, and thus, making a normal decision.
My advice, truly, is that if you claim to "love" this woman who you are "making love" to and yet you want to watch her get "f*cked" by another guy, then you should seek some therapy. If it was a "watching" thing, then you could just tape yourselves and then watch that, in privacy and intimacy. Wanting to watch her get "f*cked" by another man qualifies you for some therapy and some pills.
Good luck working it all out.
You shouldn't be so obsessed with your fantasy that you are vetting girls by their willingness to participate in your fantasies. I think you should only do what she is comfortable with and don't push her any further. And I don't think its a good "exam" to test a girlfriend.
Fantasies are just that, fantasies. They often rarely work out how the do in your mind. Sometimes its best just to keep them in your mind.