She told me she loves me but not in love with me. That was a few years ago,she stated she did not know what she wanted.
She could not make up her mind, so I moved out to give her space. I ask if there was anyone else, she told me no and she was not interested in anyone else. but I have found out she has been reaching out too other men from the start. She also told me when I found later that she and the male friend almost slept together and that she could not go through with it. He was taking advantage of her vulnerability. She had drifted so far from me,I no longer knew her, physically,mentally an intimately. I could do nothing right in her eyes, I though it was the menopause,it was all about me,me,me, like I never existed in her life in the previous seven years.
So much has happen that we lost track of the causes of our orginal problems. It's me not you she said, you have done nothing wrong. I have no answers for the pain we both have endured, which plays havoc with my mind.
I still love her, and I would love to find a way to get her to fall in love with me.