Asked by tiz on
I'm married and i still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend.wat should i do?
i have been married for 5 yrs have a baby,but i still have strong feelings towards my ex boyfriend and i'm in love with him.I think of him alot more than my husband,even when i'm around my husband i'm always think of my ex boyfriend.What's the best way to deal with it?
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I feel bad for your husband. Bet he's a good father and a good provider. Bet he's devoted to you. Too bad he doesn't know how selfish and immature you are.
You're walking a dangerous path. Your ex is an ex for a reason. It may have been a bad-timing thing, it may have been an amicable break-up, but either way its not only over but its been over long enough for you to fall in love with and marry another man for 5 years!
It sounds like maybe things have gotten into a rut in your marriage and your fantasizing about your ex and all of the good moments...probably glossing over the bad ones while you're doing it. You need to get back in touch with why you married your husband in the first place. Sure, you have a baby now which takes away from time that you both could be spending rekindling the romance, but that just means that you both need to work that much harder to make time to be with each other.
If you have some issue with your husband then work it out. If he isn't making time for you then let him know, and vice versa. This man was important enough to you to get married to him....your ex didn't make that cut. So stop thinking about someone that didn't work out with you and start focusing on the person that did.
If you are still in contact with your ex then I would also suggest cutting that off for the time being. I'm all about being friends with an ex, but if you're still friends with him and its leading to these kinds of issues then you both are disrespecting your marriage. Friendship with an ex should never have a negative impact on your romantic relationships or marriages. If his presence is starting to give you doubts then you need to get your ex out of the picture.