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Why my girlfriend say no feeling and break up with me, just after we argue for one day and leave my country for one week?...

we have a happy and gd relationship for three sweet months.

We have some little communication problem and have not talked with each other in one day, and then i leave my country for vacation for one week, after i come back , she ignore my calls ,and few weeks later, she suggest to break up and say no feeling to be together, but we are very happy before this week, i am very gd to her in every way and no any argue before, any gd idea to keep the relationship now?
i have explained with her, we are argue for some little silly thing, it is just a communication problem between us, but she say no feeling anymore, and don't match her, and so cold to me now, please help and advise

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Posted November 23, 2009

Sadsadman...not to belittle your feelings, but you were only together for 3 months. She has made it very clear to you that she doesn't feel you are a match. Part of the reason for that may be that she doesn't see what ever it was you both argued about as being just some silly little thing...it may actually have been fairly important to her. Along with that, you don't say if you kept in touch with her during your vacation. This may have led her to create all sorts of imagined ideas about what you were doing on your vacation without her.

My best advice to you on this is to move on. There is no real point in trying to get her back. Look at how the relationship went, learn whatever you can from it, and, when you are ready, move on to someone else.

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