Asked by JSC on
My girlfriend cheated on me twice and now she is saying shes in love, whats going on?
I've been with my girlfriend over three years, and in the first two she cheated on me twice. I still have problems coping with it but she swears she loves me and will never do it again. How do you know if she is being honest or just stringing me out?
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Just dump her cheating ass that's all I can say.
The thing is, you can never KNOW that your partner is being honest with you- that's where trust comes in. It's perfectly understandable that you're having trouble trusting her after she's betrayed that confidence twice. What would I do? Let her know that I'm willing to give her a chance to regain my trust, but that I can't guarantee that she'll be successful. If she's unwilling to fight to prove herself trustworthy, or no matter what she does, you still have doubts, it's time to end things. A relationship without trust isn't a relationship at all.