I need help Please. I can't get him to climax no matter what I do.
He get's hard when ever I touch him...but to climax ? He dosn't with me...only twice
and that was months ago.
He can to porn ...and he Love's it!

He could look at a woman and climax just like that.
and now he is having a hard time to stay hard.
What should we do?
We do Love eachother...and want to be together.

Please Help US !

Thank you.
NP.

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There are several reasons, and many ways you can improve.

First off, keep in mind only about 25% of women climax during intercourse. And that is because vagina does not have many nerves in it (for good reason) and most are concentrated on the clit.

Other reasons are: you are not fully turned on (like biting hot) when he starts the intercourse, your mind is off on other things during sex, not enough lubrication, you are used to solo sex and climax through clit / nipples and not through vaginal intercourse, of if you never had climax through intercourse this is new to your body, you are self-conscious about your body and have sex with lights on and really not at ease... on an on...

There are many things you can do about this: if you were used to masturbation, teach your guy how to pleasure you like you do to yourself. have him really get you soaking wet and hot before intercourse... tell me how you get most turned on, and then have him do it to you for a long long time, till you are begging and pleading for him to be inside you (he should resist the temptation to penetrate you as soon as you ask.... ) make sure he plays with your full body, not just breast and pussy. Actually, ask him to not touch these two areas to start with and only kiss and caress your body, kiss you, hug you have his naked body touch yours.

He can also pleasure you with his fingers or tongue and you can climax through either of these if not through intercourse. do not use any numbing cream on him or you. sometimes guys try to last longer by using numbing items on their cock but duh, that also numbs the woman from inside and then she won't climax from penetration. Be sure you guys are not using anything like that.

Sometimes a woman would want to see her man in front of her for her to keep focussed on sex, otherwise her mind wanders off. If you are like that, don't do it in doggy, either you sit on him or missionary, or side of bed/couch, but in any situation be sure you 2 are facing each other. If he goes down on you, you can watch him pleasuring you and vice versa. that should help keep you mind on the act. Other thing he can do is to have some intercourse then pull out and get you to climax or near climax with his tongue or fingers and then penetrate you just when you are about to go over the cliff..............

I hope some of this helps you guys. coz right now both of you sure are missing out on one of the best feelings in sex... which is to feel each other's body climax during intercourse.. As a guy i can tell you that there is absolutely no better thing than feeling my woman's body tighten, her pussy grab my cock as i keep plunging insider her and then she lets out a deep moan and clings to my body as waves of pleasure take over her.... totally priceless. i hope and your man get to experience all that.

good luck

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