Asked by izzybeans on
can you fall for 2 men?
ok i've been in a relationship for 5 years and just recently i've developed feelings for another guy .. i still love the guy i'm with i just cant get over the feelings i have for this other man .. i cant get him out of my head i keep talking about him and i'm having dreams about him .. it really reminds me of when my boyfriend and i first started out . i've never had anything like this happen before and i dont know what to do .. i've really fallen hard for this other man . and he has feelings for me as well.and he knows i've got a boyfriend .and he's a good and decent guy he told me that he wont come between me and my boyfriend ..but i cant stop wanting to be with him ... and i still want to be with my boyfriend .. what should i do?
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Totally possible. In fact, I believe that we'll all fall in love a number of times over the course of our lives, and that we'll never *fully* get over past loves. They're such an important part of our personal history! Here's the thing: Monogamy is a bit of a societal construct, and it's impossible to completely ignore our attractions to others, especially considering that the new-romance excitement almost always fades. ... I can't advise you who to choose. Just know that -- unless you're up for exploring an open relationship -- you're going to need to carefully consider what's driving your love for each person and then make a decision.
ha ha... the temptations to have the *excitement* of a new love.
Human nature is to want something new every time, and that human nature works magic to not let you stay in one relationship for long... if you give in you will have the exact same problem a few yrs from now because you will again want the excitement of the 'new love'..
this is a imp point in your personal development, what you decide will shape your life in future...
ballz in your curt hunny buns
I have been there.If you love your boyfriend I would stay with him.The grass looks greener on the other side ,but it's not always better, believe me.