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How to rebuild my relationship?
My SO and I have been together for some time now. When we first got together we connected and got along great. 1 year and 8 months later we cant even be in the same room for more than 5 minutes without saying something harsh to each other. We have been going through some financial hardships (i know we are not alone with the way the economy is). Instead of solving our probkems together it seems to be tearing us apart. I was just wondering if anyone had some advice on how to rebuild our relationship and how to turn to each other in tougher times.
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Well, its us to one person to be strong. So make sure you relax, no matter how much you yell and fight its not going to help the money situation so you might as well relax and take it day by day. Show him how to have fun w/ you again, w/o the money. Play silly games, act silly around him, when he starts something surprise him by saying something nice, back rubs, oiled up massages, videos, things he like to do will show him that you are a teamplayer and you are ready to get back on the field. Don't bargain for arguing just walk away w/o being angry. When you see him, say something nice, you have to be the hero for awhile and then he will come around. And you can get back to that connection!