Asked by ledana_offitt on
i want him, he wants me, but he has someone else?
When it became obvious that spending time with me wasn't as exciting as getting drunk with the boys, I broke up with him hoping he would see how neglected I felt. Instead, he goes and gets someone else! He still wants to see me and I still want to see him. What does that say about me? What does that say about him? What does that say about US? Should I cut my loses, or hope for the best?
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See, the thing is, once you got a boyfriend, you wanted him to act like a woman... he didn't but you interpreted his perfectly normal guy behavior as disinterest in you and broke up. Some other girl saw his manly behavior as what it is and totally became part of his life.
What it says about you:
a) you are insecure
b) you don't know what is a typical man behavior
c) that you need to fix (a) and (b) before getting into any new relationship. otherwise you risk another heartache.
d) *hope* is not going to teach you anything. Get a good male friend and learn about men.
No because she's dealing with all of the mess now, by him just contacting you and having a girlfriend says a lot because he would break up with her. If thats the only reason you guys broke up, there is hope because its okay to have friends and go out(not every day of the week, but once a week is okay), but don't let him make you think that he wants you so bad that he's getting sex from you and her, thats not good cuz all that means is he want his cake and strawberries, with some nuts on the side.