Asked by lovenests2002 on
how do i get a man to expresss how he feels about me and show me how he feels?
I'm in a relationship with a guy for the last 3 months,due to my living situation he had me move in with him a week after we met,sharing his room in an apartment he is sharing with 2 other people,he claims he wants us to get an apartment together as soon as we have enough money saved out,everything seems to be going good in the relationship,and he seems to be happy having me around.he works a lot,and rarely has time off,while i maintain the laundry,dishes cooking ect,but i have to do all the initiating in the relationship,and he doesnt express how he feels about me,or doesn't anything to (go out of his way to show me per say)
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thanks for the reply,The thing is I don't know how he feels about me he hasn't said anything to me,in my own way I have let him know how i feel about him.so that worries me a bit.
It sounds like you two are very busy, it sounds as though he doesnt even relize that whats going on is upsetting you, he's probably so worried about saving up money and getting everything started so you two can get an apartment together, but if he didnt still have strong feelings for you he wouldnt even have mentioned the possibly of living together in the future, so for that you should be relieved and happy. As for him showing affection, he sounds real busy so be sure to bring it up gently and not like your complaining, say something like "Baby/Sweetie/etc I would like it if once in a while you could tell me how much you love me, or give me a hug..you dont seem to do that anymore (if he did in the past) He'll most likely apologize and say something about being busy with work then you could say "I understand..its just been feeling as though you havnt really been that affectionate with me" You can change the words if all that sounds totally out of your normal dialogue, its just important not to sound like your complaining cause that could get him on the defensive and start an argument.
Good Luck!