Asked by antoniaa on
Should I stay or sould I go?
I've been married 8 years. I have 3 girls oldest 7 youngest 1. I'm unhappy in my marriage, he's a great dad and good husband. We live with his family I'm currently unemployed (quit my job to try and work on my marriage). He works in construction so there are times when he'll go a week or more without work.
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Antoniaa
I'm glad I could be of help. Good luck to you and your husband, things will get better. Take one day at a time and be a team, stay strong as a family.
Thank you for responding, you're right he isn't abusive. I guess I need it to hear it from a non bias third party. Thank you again. = 0 )
Antoniaa
Right from the start I'm going to say that you should stay with your husband. Look at the whole picture and not what the rough times seem to be at the moment or how your feeling right now.
Let's break this down some..
1. You have 3 children that are involved here and so it's not just about you or your husband.
2. You mention that he is a great dad to his children and a good husband. He is not just some jerk who is abusive to you or the children in anyway.
3. He works and does what he can to provide for you and your children.
Why leave him? Ok, so your living with family and your not working right now. Things seem rough and maybe he don't have steady work all the time. That is not a reason to abandan ship just because your going through a rocky time. Remember your wedding vows, 'for better or for worse' stick together and trust in God. You both can work through these times. If you leave him, your hurting not only yourselfs but your also hurting your children. This guy is not abusive to you, you have no reason to leave him.
Stay TRUE to your husband and LOVE eachother through thick and thin.