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how to break up in a best way

we've been with eachother for a year & now i found it abit hard to continue.so dont wanna continue this relation anymore.how can i tell this matter to him in the best way & of course politely! thanks in advance.

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Tenacity (LaStarr Joy)I just dont know
Posted November 6, 2009

How long have you guys been dating, Is he a jerk or not? If he is just tell him that "you died". If hes a good guy and you are just not feeling him, ask yourself why not before you let him go because I am really noticing that women keep dumping the good ones and going for the bad ones because the bad ones are way more fun and its so much drama, you never get bored. For some reason we fall way more in love with the bad ones and not as much in love with the lame ones. You can unlame him by you making him feel like he the "ish"(didn't want to use profanity). He will start having the bad boy attitude that you crave, tell him that you crave a protector and allow him to take the lead, which means listening to him even when you do not agree. but if you want to dump him and he's done nothing wrong, you have to just tell him you want to move on and its just because you feel no chemistry and break his heart. Theres no way to get pass it. Just try not to end up with a loser please if he's actually a great guy because i've been studying men and women and relationships and that seems to happen so much.

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