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The girl I am seeing doesn't like doggy style!
I love to take my girl in doggy style, but this girl I am seeing these days doesn't like it. Is there any way to get her around to liking this position? And how do I make it comfortable for her.
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Fuck! am i the only man in this world who doesn't get to enjoy the pleasures of doggy-style sex?? Man, one thing I love and is the one I don't get to have with this girl..
What Biyonka said is right on the money ... about starting out with her laying on the stomach. My current gf and I did have doggy style sex one time (yeah only one-time) and it was when we started out as her laying on the stomach.. and I kissed and undressed her, kept kissing her body all over, then lifted her bottom and penetrated her from behind... but it was one of those rate nice-n-sweet-slow lovemaking session Mostly I just love to NAIL my woman. What kak55 said about using my hand as a buffer could be an option but that has to be a drag on the whole experience.....I mean, if one of my hand is occupied who is going to smack her ass, pull her hair, and do other things??
Anyways, thanks to all who answered..
I totally feel like missing out on all the fun :-(
As a woman, I personally love doggystyle. It's the one position I don't think my stomach looks like it just gained 10 pounds as well as it's the only position I don't have to think "what kind of face am I making?". I can just let go of any insecurity and enjoy it all 100%. I can also play with my clit via my finger, his finger, or a toy easily in this position. Not to mention there is something so hot about feeling a man's sack smack up against you, in my opinion at least. I never understand why women wouldn't like it. I think what's really going to need to happen is to find out why she doesn't like it. I once dated a guy who was intensely over well endowed. He would hit my cervix so hard I couldn't enjoy it. So he would wrap a few fingers around it at the base and then have at it. This way I could enjoy it more and he wasn't able to fully enter me in this position. Usually I don't experience this problem. My husband can his my cervix in this position but it just grazes it. But I have known a girl or two with very shallow vagina's making it more painful because of their cervix taking a beating. That might be why she hates it. But getting to the root of the reason and then moving from there is of course your best bet if you two are at that stage. Good luck!
If most of what you want is doggy style and that is what you always try to do, then it may not be a pain thing, but more like a "she doesn't want to be seen as just a sexual object kind of thing." Lots of women love doggy style, but they also enjoy seeing their lover's face. Too much of any position is never a good thing.
You may be getting the pleasure from this style, but, she's getting pain. Pain will make you not want to do this style. Ask her if she is in pain when you try this style, have you ever thought of that?
Morticia
Well instead of having her to get on all fours ask her to lay on her stomach. She might like it like that where eventually she'll want to do doggy style. I didn't like at one point in time when I first started being sexually active, but then my bf told me just to lay on my stomach and it made me want to try doggy style. Or another way that you both could do it where then you can work you way to the doggy style is this: ok they same way you would be if you were hittin it from the back on you knees lean back( not if your on you back with your legs out but with your legs folded and arms out for support but you probably knew that :-D), get her on top but instead her facing you have her face the other way let her get the feel of it then rise up and just go with the flow both of these ways worked for me and honestly thats all I want to do lol sorry but okay try that if it dont work i dont what may be wrong with her who doesn't like doggy style.