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Okay its not that serious. But okay I know in my last question I was talking about moving in with this dude and blah blah blah. Anyways thank you to those who gave me feedback realized that aint for me, but now I got a problem. So like I got this friend that I have known for bout 7 years he was my first bf when i moved down here we were very young but we have had contact with each other until about our junior year in high school. We meet in the 7th grade. So our junior year he left we havent talked since we jus recently started talking about a month ago again. Okay feelings are coming back I was so mad when he left our junior year I still like him I care about him and I think I may be in love with like my best friend even after all that time we haven't talked he still the same person he hasn't changed. I miss being around him I miss being able to hug him and talk to him without it being a friendship type way. Only problem is he meet this girl like 5 years ago and they been together for two years and he tells me there problems and I give him my honest opinion without sounding like I'm trying to get him away from her when really all I wanna say is leave her alone I love you I wanna be with after all these years I still have feelings for you. Its just so hard because I cant quite know if he may possibly feel the same way. Like i told him about the move and he was saying he aint wanna talk about it that its making him mad but he kinda covers it up wit a little laugh or something he keep saying he wont never get to see me again and that i wont talk to him anymore. Anyway this girl of his he has told that no matter what girl he with if his ex wanna get back together he gonna always choose her over who ever he's with. I knew him longer, even though were older now things have change I know deep in my heart for the longest he is it. I think about him all the time and I wanna tell him but Im so scared I hate rejection and I dont want to make myself look like a fool. I cant find the courage to be open and honest and tell him. Ugh what am I to do how can i compete with a girl he will always go back to no matter what the circumstances are. Should i just let it be or tell him how I feel and hope for the best. P.S I think he may be part of the reason why I didn't want to leave to move in with that dude.....
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Man, what are you scared of? Let me start over. From my perspective, this guy wants to cheat on his girlfriend. More than likely he's a loser! Tell me the truth, have you always like him? He hasn't changed? He know you like him, my thing is tell him that you love him and because of that you cannot talk to you anymore. He not leaving that girl, he just talking to you trying to see if you would do him while he still has a girlfriend, don't give him none girl. He probably really do like your personality if he can just talk to you on the phone like that or hang out with you, but realistically I have a guy friend and a boyfriend. My guy friend has a girlfriend and I always discuss my bf problems with me and he told me if I dump my BF, he would get at me. He's attractive and fun to be around, but my BF is "my baby". I would never leave him to go with him, even with the problems we have, all relationships have problems, the longer they last the more you have to work on them. Tell him you're in love b4 you be doing him and he still with his girl.
