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he is perfect to me it makes me feel guilty
im 19 years old girl in my college year so far so good and having many friends and nothing is missing me and now i made a frindship with a handsome friend he is 21 years old and now we are so into each other everyone notice it befor we did , but there is this overwelmin feelings i randomly get thinking he is way to perfect for me althought i am beautiful 2 but i dont know i still get random thoughts in a way it makes me end up crying and i dont want to lose him at the same time cause we complet each other
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(you don't believe you deserve good things such as this relationship) this is exactly what i meant , whats the cure for it , or is it how i am there is no way out ?
( happiness is easy, feeling worthy of it isn't. Hope this helps.)thanx mrwhisper it help alot
okay, think this insecurity needs to be dealt with. Essentially, you don't believe you deserve good things such as this relationship. This insecurity can undermine how you think and how you act. I know, I've been there. It almost stopped me from dating my now husband. I recommend getting some counseling (free through your school) let them know your insecurities and ask for some tools to dealing with it. In the end, insecurity is a personal issue, that can wreck a relationship if not dealt with properly.
This is a great time in your life, college, new and old friends, endless possibilities for creating positive relationships. Still, you are 19 and when the emotions hit you it can be a little overwhelming. Give this person a chance to know the real you explore how deep this relationship can go. Don't lose yourself in it, but if he is as great as you say he is, then you should be , you shouldn't feel guilty about how well he treats you, happiness is easy, feeling worthy of it isn't. Hope this helps.