How do I, start things over?
I was seeing this guy for almost a year...find out he was email ither ladies asked them out....can said for sure if he cheating or not....after that things went up and down...till one day he would not asked my calls....took him a week to email me saying he was busy doing things....let him go....3 weeks after that he email me saying he sorry.....let him go....About 3 weeks after that he email again...asked how I doing....I did email him to let him know what been going on in my life...we then email one more time...we meet up he seem like he whating me back....he then hug me good byb saying take care....I finally block him from contact me at all. I can not take this...I starting to opening doors...Have about 4 guys that what to get to know me...I being a bit old fashion....I like to know if I handle this right....Please tell me like it is...And if any of ya have any advice at all...about online dating...meeting the guys....do ya think it right to meet more then one...having done much dating in the yrs I been dovrecd...Any advice how how to start over and get over the heartache,,,cause i was became to fell in love with this one guy who jerk me around.....thank you for taking the time and reading this...and gaving me ya advice.......mightymouse.....
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If you're meeting people online (dating sites), then it is pretty much understood that you have options. I met my fiancee online, and when we started communicating, we found that we liked each other. We both mutually agreed to see each other exclusively. That came after in person dtaes, phone conversations, and emails. It sure didn't happen overnight.
Leave the guy alone. He seems like he's about playing games. You seem to want more than what he's either willing or able to give you. There is someone out there for you. Take your time with it.
Mightymouse, I think you are right to move on from this guy and draw some strict boundaries on communication. It may not always feel right, but you are doing the right thing for yourself and your heart.
I haven't dated for a while, so I can't be specific on how to jump back into the dating world. I do want to say though, I imagine that you know how to to it. If you were your friend, what would you say to yourself? I find that the encouraging things we think and believe for others we have a hard time thinking and believing for ourselves. Advocate for yourself, cheer yourself on, men love a lady with confidence.
