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i think i love them both

I been with this girl for more 2years and i got into this second girl, now im trying to stop thinkin bout #2 and i cant, she says she wants to be with me but evrything about her tells me differently. i already stop talking to her for the sake of my 2year relationship and for myself but i cant get her out my head, everything reminds me of her. wat do i do????? =(

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BNYCE
BNYCEGO with the FLOW
Posted November 17, 2009

Life is too short to be filled with what if(s) If you can't stop thinking about this girl then maybe that is who you really want to be with. I think maybe you just don't want to hurt girl#1 feelings. Let me tell you its like ripping off a bandaid. One big pull instead of dragging it out. You already know what to do, so do it!

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spacecowgirledward
spacecowgirledwardBeautiful, Tragic, Wonderful, Sad
Posted November 3, 2009

Sometimes you can fall for more than one person, but can I ask.. why were you out with another girl if you were in a 2 year relationship? If you did that, then maybe you really care for girl #2 more than girl #1, but think about who you could be hurting, and don't forget.. "You don't know what you've got until it's gone.".. and the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
Best of luck.
-M.E.

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