How can I get him back?
I broke up with my best friend 6 years ago. I made a complete break because I felt that I needed to grow and date other people. Well, I have only been able to go out with one other person since then and I was constantly comparing him to my ex. I have been periodically communicating with my ex since early this year but he is obviously still very hurt. He is polite, yet short in all of our conversations. How can I show him how sorry I am? I want to make things right between us but he won't give me an inch. Can he ever trust me again?
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Well, there is a saying that you wouldnt know how important something is to you untill you loose it.. You got to accept the fact that when you throw a rock on a mirror and it breaks, no matter how you will tape it, it wont be the same again. soo Its hard for you gaining the same trust again as before... Look elsewhere but remain good friends with your ex... Gud luck
You can't mend someone's heart. You can't repair feelings.
Feelings and emotions are like mirror. If you throw a rock at the mirror it is going to crack. Then, no matter how much glue or tape you put on the mirror, it will never be the same again.
You made a clean break as if he didn't ever exist in your life. Now 6 years later you realize that what you had with the guy was special you want him back. Life doesn't work like that. when you hurt someone's feelings dont' expect them to forgive you right away.
Best advice: learn and be a better person for future. move on.
I'm sorry, but the one thing it took me forever to realize is that you can't make someone forgive you, and you can't change the way people think. all you can do is continue to be nice, but don't hold out forever. You have to move on eventually.
