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Why does he care?

My boyfriend and I broke up three years ago. It was a very painfull break up on both of our parts. Anyways, since then I have dated many different guys. However, I started to date his co-work that he doesn't even know very well. Apparently once my ex found this out he went balistic and quizzing his best friend (we both are friends with him) on if he knew about this and why didn't he tell him. The kicker in this entire situation is my ex is engaged and will be getting married this coming May. So my question is why does he care who I date?

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Posted November 2, 2009

You say the break up was painful, but it doesn't necesarily mean that you don't care about each other in some way. He may not know this guy that you're dating to well, but its possible that he has chosen not to know him that well because the guy could be bad news. If this is the first time anything like this has happened then maybe you should find out what your ex's beef is with this guy...perhaps he knows something about him that you don't.

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