Asked by ZacksBaybee on
I think my boyfriend is pushing me too fast.
My boyfriend and I have been only going out for about 5 days, and one of his buddies asks him when we were going to "do it" and I just kept my mouth shut. But Zack said it was too early, but then he said maybe a couple more hours. Then he gave me a hug, now I feel kind of sickk inside but I still love him. What do I do?

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Thanx for the help, I called him and told him what you said and he said that he didn't really mean it in that way. He told me that he was sorry and he would just tell them to leave me alone next time.
Tell him his joke with his friends hurt your feelings. Let him know that you won't do it that fast. Tell him you don't want him to talk about you that way to his friends. Then see what he says. If he's a good guy, he'll respect your wishes.
If guys are joking around like that, I think you can joke back and say something like "in your dreams!"