Does success matter?
Is it still important to have partners that are smart, socially adaptable and successful? I've been noticing that more and more people do not seem to care if a potential partner has anything to offer them for the future. Do the same standards of the days of old still matter in the twenty-first century?
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sussees isn't being at the top but is how much fun you had getting there. and not how much money you have but how much love is in your heart.
I don't feel it's a case that finding a successful partner is any less important. I feel it's about finding someone who matches you to what you know will make you happy. Some people don't care if they find someone who has a successful career because they are doing well themselves and feel comfortable just being the one to bring that to the table.
Personally I want to find someone who clicks with me on a spiritual, emotional, interest level. A spiritual level is what matters the most to me and the rest comes after. I'm not going to think any less of a woman who has a career vs the one who decides to stay home and take care of the home.
We all have standards and our checklists that we run through in our heads when looking for a mate. It's just a matter of going through that list and deciding for yourself what really matters most and what doesn't.
